Just some pics this week

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

She just sent some pictures this week! It's all good.


We found this in our potential investigator's yard. IT LIVES!


Snowy day at the temple today! :)


Us with the 1st Ward sisters at zone conference


(This is actually from last week.) Strike a pose in Prescott, Washington. Population: 50 feet that way.

This Lovely Week in November

Monday, November 16, 2015

Email to the family

Hello, family!

I didn't really feel like making a mass email this week, but if anyone wants to know how I'm doing, let them know about all that's been said in my attachment. I wanted to include what I wrote to President Ware. I thought it'd be a pretty good summary. I love you all so, so much, and I'm glad to hear that the funeral went so well. I'm so grateful for the knowledge we have of the Gospel and for what a blessing it's truly been for me— and for you all, I'm sure. Thank you for your great examples and for your love and support.

President Ware!

We are so grateful for this week. We've been really trying to help Samantha and Linda progress towards baptism this week. We had a lesson with Linda, and we almost lost her! We went to her house for our lesson with her on Friday and she started with, "I don't think this is for me, you guys." NO! So we asked some inspired questions with the help of our member, and we found out that she wasn't understanding the Book of Mormon and feeling a bit overwhelmed. We explained that she doesn't need to understand it all at once, and we're thinking about sharing scriptures from the Book of Mormon that are going to help her with whatever she's going through, instead of asking her to read and comprehend the whole Book of Mormon. We're thinking it will be a good start to get her warmed up to the language of the Book of Mormon and the way that it will make her feel.

Samantha's doing really well and is excited for baptism, which we are so grateful for. She recently got a job and they asked her to work on Sunday, so she wasn't able to come [to church]. We're pushing her baptismal date back again, to the 5th of December. We had been having a really hard time getting ahold of her until we thought to call her during weekly planning, and I was amazed that she not only answered but we were able to counsel with her about the expectations we have for her baptismal preparation, and she's agreed to let us come and teach her three times a week. Yay!

We've also been teaching someone named Himan. Sister Hamblin and I met him and his friend by the convenience store by our house. It was pretty funny because his friend was really drunk and was rapping and going on about Jesus and his conversion story while Himan apparently had this epiphany that we were exactly what he needed. As his friend was going on, Himan turns to Sister Hamblin and says, "Whoa. It's so crazy that you're here, right now." And she got his contact information and gave him a Restoration pamphlet. We've been teaching him on and off ever since. He tells us he loves what we teach him and he really loves how it makes him feel, but Sister McOmber and I have been struggling to teach him. It seems like he learns a little slower, but like I said, he loves it. He came to church yesterday, and really wants to come back next week. We invited him to be baptized this week, and he said he's going to pray about it. We're aiming to follow up with him again this week. What should we do if we think he might have a learning or other disability? Sister McOmber suggested having him meet our bishop to discern his needs. It's just finding a good time where both Bishop and Himan are available.

ALSO! You probably have heard from previous missionaries in this area about Vicky Trout and Lee Crosby. Sister McOmber was looking in the area book and came across their teaching record (probably because it's a really long one... :)) and we had the idea to call them to see how they were. They were both reeeally close to being baptized before I got to the area. Apparently they had been interviewed and everything, but when her mom died, progression just sort of stopped, and between funeral arrangements and her health, they sort of fell off the map. So when we called, she updated us on everything that had been going on and expressed her and Lee's desire to be baptized, but she expressed that health issues kept interfering. We explained that opposition would continue to arise because of the importance of what she was wanting to do, and encouraged her to push through it and commit to a date. They want to be baptized as soon as possible— the 21st, if they can. We counselled with Elder Harward and he encouraged us to review the lessons with them, since it's been so long. I'm thinking that's probably a really good idea. It'll just be a matter of how fast we can do it. We're both really excited, though.

We're so grateful that the Lord is pouring down these miracles as we're gradually talking to more and more people every day. The promise you made us is so true. We're still improving about talking to everyone, but even the quarter inch that we've seen has made a big difference in the work.

As far as my family, I didn't hear much from them. My mom sent me a little something in response to what I sent her for the funeral, and my sister sent pictures from the funeral and a little bit about how everything went. This is what I sent to her:

"It makes me sad that I couldn't be there, but I know Dad would want me here. The real Dad isn't in that coffin, and that brings me a lot more comfort. The real Dad is around me and right by my side when I need him. The real Dad is sharing the gospel on the other side with those who need it. I just pray this will be an experience that strengthens the whole family. I love the pictures of Maren [my niece] and I LOVE that Bradley [my brother-in-law] is wearing Dad's tie. It made me so happy to hear that Kevin and Shawn [my brothers] did such a great job with those prayers. There's a part in our handbook about the priesthood, and as it was talking about funerals, I thought about Kevin and Shawn and how they really are living worthily of the priesthood they hold. I am so grateful that we are living what Mom & Dad taught us. Doesn't it just make everything make sense? Doesn't it bring such peace? It makes me sad to see all this stuff that he loved so much left behind, and it makes me sad that I can't be there with Mom to help and comfort her, but I know that this scripture is true:

"'Therefore, thrust in your sickle with all your soul, and your sins are forgiven you, and you shall be laden with sheaves upon your back, for the laborer is worthy of his hire. Wherefore, your family shall live. Behold, verily I say unto you, go from them only for a little time, and declare my word, and I will prepare a place for them.' (D&C 31:5,6)

"I am so glad that Dad is in a place where he is resting. I'm grateful for the promise of the scriptures because I worry about you guys a lot. I know that you will be okay, that we will be okay. I know the Lord will protect, lift, and comfort us with Dad's passing. I know that there is so much more to mortality than mortality. I know it because I feel it, and I can feel Dad. It's got to be true. There truly is no way it isn't."

There's been a lot of weight lifted about this. The Lord truly is healing my heart as I've been trying to forget about my problems and go to work. I miss Dad every day, but I can imagine it will be that way for the rest of my life— for as long as Dad just isn't with us anymore. But he is. And every day might be hard. But life needs to go on. It has to. That's what he would want. I can imagine some days are going to be really hard, but that doesn't mean it won't be okay.



There have been quite a few days where all I want to do is go home and be with my family, but I'd much rather be here. I have my whole life— and beyond— to be with my family, but I only have 9+ months left to serve the Lord like this. I just want to do all that I can while I'm here. I've been trying to let Sister McOmber help me with whatever I need as far as mourning or whatever, but I have an easier time just forgetting myself than talking about my problems. I figure it will resolve itself eventually.

Anyway. I'm rambling. I feel like things are going really well in spite of whatever is happening with my family. I'm grateful for the work of a missionary. It has been so amazing to be a missionary as my dad has passed. I told my sister the other day that I felt like I was cheating because I was out here with all this extra help as a missionary while they were at home dealing with it all. I worry about them, but at the same time I don't. Being a missionary truly is a blessing that I am beyond grateful for right now. I appreciate your support as well, President Ware. Thank you for all you've been doing for me and my family. Thank you for your prayers.

The work is rolling forward. The Lord truly blesses us in our afflictions.

~Sister Nielsen

Here are some fun pictures from the week.


That one time one of our members has a tree house


From a few weeks ago. The leaves here are so pretty!!

Truly the Gospel Blesses Families

Monday, November 9, 2015

I am so grateful for the love and support I have felt from so many of you as the news of my dad's passing has spread.

For those who don't already know, my dad passed away last Thursday. His kidneys had been failing. Diabetes is a beast for the intestines. Eventually they got him on some medication that finally helped him to rest and relax. My mom helped talk him into the idea of it being OK for him to go, and he passed away peacefully. They let me know that night, and I didn't get to sleep right away. Thank goodness for the impression I had to take Benedryl; knocked me out, eventually. :) I was so worried about my mom. I couldn't imagine having to do that for the person you love the very, very most.

President Ware has been very, very supportive about it. He let me call my mom and talk to her after he had let her know that the protocol is to keep missionaries in the field instead of letting them go home for funerals. (Apparently when people go home, they try to not come back. #SatanIsReal)

My dad isn't suffering anymore from this disease that tormented his body for 21 years. He is free. He has free range to learn the gospel, to share the gospel, and be by my side helping me testify 24/7. His presence is real. It's so crazy. I feel him here with me, even now. I have never felt this close to him. They're having the funeral this Saturday, but I'll be here in Washington, sharing the glorious truth of forever families, with my dad right by my side. (It makes me sound like a crazy person, but I wouldn't say it if it weren't real.)

I don't want any of you to worry. We are all fine. I am fine. I'm going to be just fine. My family will be fine. My mom is clinging to the peace she has felt in the temple. Nothing is impossible. The Lord has made it right through the Restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ. This is why I'm doing what I'm doing! So that others can have this peace, too. :) It's been surreal to feel my dad helping me, and I know that he truly lives on. He is my best friend, my "day-time friend," and we continue to have adventures together.





The work is progressing. Please keep Samantha D. and Linda A. in your prayers. They are on date for baptism, and are slowly progressing. I think we'll have to push their baptism dates back.

The gospel of Jesus Christ has never been more real to me. I know it's real. My dad has been here with me, and he knows it's true as well. The restored gospel will truly, truly bless my family and yours. If you are reading this and haven't already gained a testimony of this truth, I want to invite you to please, please do so. If you ask God, with a sincere heart, he will let you know that this is true. Please. It will truly change your life, and it has been a rock and a sure strength and foundation in mine.

-Sister Melanie Nielsen
daughter of Russell Kevin Nielsen (Sept. 13, 1960 - Nov. 5, 2015)

Rain, Halloween, & Taming the Beast

Monday, November 2, 2015

Busy day! Short email. Sorry! Here's what I sent to President Ware today.

I feel like Heavenly Father really has seen the desire I have to improve. The Lord has blessed us with opportunities to invite people to baptism! Samantha D. really wants to learn what God wants her to do and is so excited for November 21. She loves the way she feels when we teach her. She says the things we teach her give her "good goosebumps." :) We were so excited to teach her about the Holy Ghost when she said that! We invited her to church, but she said she got way sick the night before and couldn't make it. We're trying to get her stepmom's home teachers over to give her a blessing. We're not sure if that actually happened yet.

We hope we can keep consistently meeting with her. It seems like that would be the only thing keeping her from reaching her date. I think if we pray about a good fellowshipper for her, we'll have an easier time and keep her safe and progressing. We're meeting with her again on Wednesday, but wanted to stop by tonight to see if she's doing all right.

The other person we had the blessing of teaching this week was Linda A.! We met her at Subway the night Sister McOmber got here, and she kept talking about how she was ready to get clean and get baptized. We scheduled a return appointment for this last Saturday. We watched the Restoration video with her, her daughter, and her daughter's boyfriend, Luis, who was glued to the movie the whole time! She told us it was a really relaxing video and Luis said he really enjoyed it! She had questions about why there were so many Bibles, and she was quite frustrated about it, but it was so amazing to see how teaching her about the Apostasy really helped her understand how the Restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ really answers those questions.

She wants to work towards November 27 to be baptized. We wanted it to be sooner, but she has a hectic work schedule and apparently she relapsed on cigarettes. Many mighty prayers her direction. I think she's definitely ready to follow the Savior, but I still think she might have a lot of questions about things. Which things, I'm not sure yet, but I'm grateful for the way that planning and the Spirit help us.

It's hard to believe all of this only happened in a week. It's been a jam-packed week of miracles.

So pray for Samantha, Linda, Ed B., and Tanya G. At least for this week. Samantha and Linda are on date for baptism. Ed is struggling to come to church, and we're not going to meet with him until he shows a little more interest (and he's so, so close, too! He just needs to get his rear in gear!). And Tanya is a referral we got this week, and she has been prepared. We just need to get with her. ​And you know, we need to get people to church. Church attendance is so important, and it's a delicate balance of helping people get there and getting them fellowshippers who will help them get there as well. I wish missionary work were less of a learning process sometimes, but thus is life. We're doing our best. :)

Also, I cut my hair today. There was a whole animal hiding in there. Imagine that.

- Sister Nielsen

P.S. We got stuck in the rain with a broken umbrella. Who says it doesn't rain in this part of Washington?




Halloween!






He will do great things. ;)


Our pretty church in Walla Walla!


THIS COIN IS AS OLD AS THE SAVIOR! What?!


Look at how funny our bishop's family is. Oh my word.

Week One, Transfer 6: Subway Sandwiches & Speeding

Monday, October 26, 2015

I'm admittedly having a really hard time today. I'm not really sure, but I guess I just woke up on the wrong side of the bed. I don't remember if I told you last week, but my companion got transferred to a different area. It sounds like President Ware thinks I have a lot more growing to do. So. Trying not to be discouraged about that.

Yesterday was such an awesome day, though. I really needed it. The sabbath truly was a delight and a relief. Where do I even start? I'm going to jot down some of my favorites from my notes:

• Turn to the Lord; trust in Him, and let Him be your guide.
• A desire to believe is where you start! It can be that simple.
• Skepticism is easy; faith is a worthwhile effort that reaps great results.
• Center your lives on the Savior & simplify your life with the things that matter most.
• How we can establish a good foundation on Jesus Christ? Center your life on him. The world is spinning out of control, and even our lives can feel that way. If we center ourselves on him, we find protection.
• Forgiveness. Forgive others. Take time to evaluate anything you haven't moved on from. Give that to the Savior and simplify your life.
• Forgive yourself. The Savior is ready and willing to take your mistakes from you. Apply the Atonement and move on. Let it go. Simplify your life by giving it to him.
• Self-Control. The more you use it, the stronger it gets.
• Align yourself to the will of the Lord.
• The Lord will humble us so that our hearts can be broken. When our hearts break, there is room for the Lord to fill it with a better way.
• To him, our direction is more important than our speed.
• Simply repent and get on the path. The Lord is there to help us.

Our bishop invited us to ward council, which has been a goal (of mine, at least) for quite a while. We've been to a few ward councils since I've been here, but it was cool that Bishop wanted us to be there. What was even better is that we talked about the people the ward is focusing on, and I'm not sure if we've done that since I've been here! We'll be trying to help the ward with those people as well, thank goodness. Hoping it will open up some teaching opportunities. Then what was even better, we met with Bishop and our ward mission leader to get the ball rolling on a few things that haven't been happening. We counselled together and made some great plans about how we can be more effective in working together as members and missionaries. The Lord is truly preparing people for us through the efforts of our members.

My new companion's name is Sister McOmber. She's from Queen Creek, AZ. She is a great missionary, and it's been so awesome to work with her so far. Our first night together, we had dinner scheduled with a less-active family, but when we showed up to dinner with them, they cancelled and gave us some money to go get ourselves dinner. We chose Subway (one reason probably being that we get a missionary discount there, which is nice!). This lady named Linda was making our sandwiches. She noticed our name tags, rang up our discount (bless her), and proceeded to check us out. To our surprise, suddenly she asked us to pray for her daughter, who was going through some health issues. After we prayed with her (with no one else in the store, thank goodness), we asked about her daughter and started asking questions to open up a gospel discussion. She told us about how much she'd done to turn her life around and how much Jesus Christ has been helping her. "I run on faith," she told us. :) We had a great conversation with her, and left her with a pass-along card.

The next day, we were in the same area. Because our mortal bodies are subject to mortal things, we gave in to the great need we had to... relieve ourselves... and stopped by Subway to ask if we could use their restroom, not thinking Linda would be there again. But she was! So while I was... um, busy... my companion started to get to know Linda a little more, and by the time I came out, we were easily led to a conversation that helped us understand her desire to continue to move forward with her progression and be baptized. We were so excited that she said that! Haha. We asked her if we could come over to her house and help her achieve that goal, and we found out she lived in our area! How great is that? The soonest she could meet is on Halloween, so we've made plans to meet with her a little more often, or at least go get a Subway sandwich or something. :) We're very excited for this opportunity the Lord has given us and are praying to be able to accomplish his will for her.
I only have time for that miracle this week, but the Lord has been pouring them down. My companion has such great desire and is so genuine. She really is being a great example to me.

I love you with all my heart. Keep yourselves centered on the Lord, and all will be well.

-Sister Nielsen

Wherefore, your family shall live

Email to the family

Monday, October 19, 2015
Sorry to hear that Dad is having more troubles. All I can think to say is that the Doctrine and Covenants promises that my missionary service will really bless our family. "Therefore, thrust in your sickle with all your soul, and your sins are forgiven you, and you shall be laden with sheaves upon your back, for the laborer is worthy of his hire. Wherefore, your family shall live." (D&C 31:5)

All we can do is trust that the Lord will bless our family, and move forward with faith.

They're transferring my companion to Kennewick this week. I'm not really sure why, but it sounds like that's happening to a lot of the new missionaries that came in last transfer. They don't quite know what to do with 29 missionaries! There are quite a few companionships that are only six weeks in and are getting doubled into an area. Only six weeks in with no trainer? Training each other? It's crazy.

My companion is going to be with a sister who just finished training. I guess the Lord trusts Sister Hamblin a lot (and her new trainer). That girl came pre-trained anyway. I can only hope that it's not because I did something wrong. I feel like there are things I could have done better, but ultimately I feel like I tried my best with what I had. I am trying to learn to trust the Lord more and rely on him rather than my own strengths. Maybe and hopefully that will prepare me for when the Lord calls me to train again.

I'll be getting a sister who was also training one of the 29 new missionaries that came in last transfer. So we both sent our missionaries somewhere else. I'm not sure why it's happening, but I trust it's happening for a reason. Being a trainer is such a beautiful and awesome experience, so I guess the Lord is preparing me to be even better at it for next time.

I'll send you what I sent President Ware because I ran out of time for sake of writing him about so much today.

It's been roller-coaster week! (I feel like I probably say that every week! Haha.) We had an investigator we met last week that we decided to drop by and visit. When we taught her, everything we taught about was something she agreed with, and she was really excited to pray about the Book of Mormon and find out if she had been baptized by proper authority. Apparently she didn't necessarily appreciate that we surprised her, though. She got quite a bit upset, with some choice words about us trying to shove these things down her throat and told us to never come back. So that was quite depressing. Especially after telling our district council about her and feeling their support to go and reach out to her.

I think one miraculous thing that's happened this week was actually things that happened the past couple of days. We've been striving to include the members more, and I think the best way to describe doing that is that we schedule a couple of hours or so to be in a certain part of our area— not only to find, street contact, and tract, but to look through our directory and feel by the Spirit which member we should visit. It's not something we make time for every day, but we've been able to do it every other day or so, and we found a way to reach out by offering service to a few of the members we've met.

We stopped by a fellowshipper for one of our investigators who's not really progressing, and we were able to sit down, briefly get to know the family, and share a scripture about people's hearts being prepared for the word and ask them questions about it. It sparked a great conversation that really brought the Spirit into the home. We kept it as brief as the conversation allowed, and said a prayer with them. It was hard to leave the house after that because they were talking about people they've been trying to work with after we asked if they could think of anyone we could try by that night. The father talked about his wayward daughter in the 1st Ward, and the adult son recommended a family that lived in our area and invited him to get ahold of us when we knew their address (otherwise, we'd have a really hard time finding it).

I just think the biggest thing that this plan has helped us with is just acting in a way where we've realized that we can't do this work without the members. Another thing that I think has really helped us is keeping daily contact with our ward mission leader. He's really gotten more and more excited about getting the ward involved since we had that meeting in Milton-Freewater. The most miraculous part was just seeing a member we don't talk to much (other than at church) call us and refer his neighbor. His neighbor is someone we had talked to before and he had asked our member about us, and Brother Petersen called us right away. We made it a priority to contact this referral the next day (with no notable success) and left a note on Brother Petersen's door so we could follow up with him. Brother Petersen called, we told him what happened, and then Brother Petersen started telling us about another friend he was trying to have over. He also mentioned his plans to invite them to meet with the missionaries, and the Spirit helped us compliment him and his dedication to serving the Lord.

I'm grateful for the change of mindset the Lord, through many means, has helped me to have about members. We've got to love them into this work. There's no way we can do it without them. I really am starting to see the Lord bless us with the attention we're trying to pay to the members. We sat down with one of our most progressing investigators (actually, probably our actual most progressing investigator... :/ ), Ed B., and asked him what he expected of us as missionaries. Apparently this was the best question we could have asked because he opened up about him being on the fence about whether or not this was the path the Lord wanted him to take. We encouraged him to come to church so that he would be able to feel the Spirit testify to this being the path for him. He agreed that it would help, and expressed that he wanted to come on a church tour to get a feel for it before he came. We thought this conversation was a miracle because we have been trying and trying to figure out what his holdup was and why he wasn't coming to church. But it became pretty evident when we just paid attention to the Spirit. We were trying to get a member to that lesson as well, which didn't work out, but I feel like we were able to talk to him more freely when we were able to sit with him, one on one (or, one on two, if you will) to figure out why he wasn't progressing.

So we tried to set up a church tour the next few days and didn't have any luck getting a member to come. When it kept falling through, he promised that he would be at church, but... no go. Maybe he's not ready? Maybe we need to have another "DTR" (define the relationship)? :) He's really good to read the Book of Mormon every time, so it's clear that he's willing to learn, but he won't come to church. He says he got turned off from churches when his last pastor was always asking for money in his sermons. I think he thinks that's what's going to happen at our church. I feel like we've explained that, but maybe the church tour is just what needs to happen. I think that would really help him; it's just a matter of getting a member there. We can't do a church tour without a member. Plus we'd need another woman with us!

So we're praying, and trying to listen to what the Spirit is telling us. And we're trying to find, find, find, because you've got to find if you want to teach, right?

I love you all a lot. :) Give Daddy my love.

~Sister Nielsen

Why for did you cut me down?

Monday, October 12, 2015


Another successful day of tracting

Hey, all! It's a short one this week. But I wanted to share what I wrote to my mission president, and then I wanted to share a link to a Mormon Message. It definitely applies and helped me a ton today! :)

I would say this week has been pretty good, with all things considered. In trying to keep an eternal perspective, I'd say I'm grateful for this week. Sometimes you have those weeks where everything falls through, almost everyone drops you, and you're inclined to ask God why he let that happen, but it lead to something greater!

My friend shared this story with me, and I thought it really applied to my week.

"Our mission president was teaching his son how to mow their lawn and it was taking his son a really long time to get the job done. Little by little he got better, and it got to the point where he now can mow the lawn one-handed, at like 20 miles an hour! Haha! He told us that when he was frustrated with his son initially, he had the thought come to his mind which said, 'Rich,' [he calls himself this when he is talking to himself, apparently] 'you are not just mowing a lawn, you are mowing a boy.'"

I get impatient with myself a lot! I just wanna be a perfect missionary already. I just wanna have all the answers to people's questions, but that's not how it works at all! It's about mowing a missionary, huh? :) So we're starting from square one this week and really, really focusing on the members. Thank goodness, we didn't lose our whole teaching pool, but we did lose a few potentials (and it felt like a lot! haha). But now we're really working with our ward mission leader, and we're really trying to get involved with the ward and build relationships. I think if this past week hadn't have been so awful, we would have never thought that we needed to do that, so I think the Lord really does cut you down for a reason! I'm so grateful for that!


Can't see the video? Click here.

~Sister Nielsen